Life will never be the same for Osgood woman
Wanda English Burnett - Editor
Char Bultman of Osgood, knows that her life
will never be the same and that suits her just fine. She has
lost a whopping amount of weight, 200 pounds, and overcome
a number of obstacles to become the woman she is today, a third
of the person she was two years ago.
She described her ordeal as a "journey" deciding
to share her story with others to encourage people who are
morbidly obese as she was. "If I can just give one person
hope," she noted, continuing, "it will have been
worth it."
Bultman first shared her story with readers of the Osgood
Journal in March of 2004, three months after her gastric bypass
surgery. At that time she told that the surgery wasn't easy,
matter of fact, she was rushed back to the hospital due to
massive blood loss after the surgery. For people who think
gastric bypass surgery is the easy way out, she emphatically
replies, "There's nothing easy about it!"
From the beginning of her "journey" until now, Bultman
has been through a number of surgeries, most she feels related
to her weight. She has had a hysterectomy, her top teeth all
cut out, and 17 pounds of skin surgically removed not to mention
an infection that had her in the hospital three days. She had
a "knot" in her stomach, that at first was thought
to be a hernia. It turned out to be a blood clot.
While Dr. Wesley Alexander called her his "star" patient,
because she followed the rules explicitly, he did tell her "if
something bad was going to happen, it seemed to happen to her."
Scarred from one hip bone to the other, Bultman will bear
the reality of life as an overweight person forever. She noted
that the pain she felt after the removal of skin was "excruciating,
the worst she's ever had." At first her doctor told her
he thought she would have about 50 pounds of skin to be removed.
Because of her diligence to exercise, he only had about 17
pounds to take off and said it was "the toughest he had
ever seen," according to Bultman.
After the skin removal surgery, that's when Bultman got an
infection. It was nothing she or the doctor had done wrong,
it just happened. "I didn't want to go back to the hospital...again," she
noted. Saying he hadn't had a patient in 27 years of his practice
get that kind of an infection, Bultman's doctor aggressively
treated her, first hospitalizing her and then when she came
home she wore a "vacuum pack" to keep infection out.
Bultman says she has learned a lot in her two year voyage. "People
treat me differently," she noted, saying, "women
surprise and disappoint me the most." She says now women
she doesn't even know will walk up to her and begin a conversation,
whereas before they would just stare. She admitted men treat
her differently as well. "People just treat fat people
rude," she commented.
Wearing her size 14 jeans and just a large shirt (which is
baggy), she enjoys some simple things - sitting cross-legged,
bending over to retrieve something from the floor, and being
able to actually see her feet! She went from a size 5x-6x clothing
to what she wears today.
She still has some skin excess in her stomach area that bothers
her, but, "it doesn't hang down to my knees," she
laughed. She is able to laugh now, but still has moments of
remembering how hard it was and how she was treated. "I've
struggled my whole life with weight issues," she noted.
Now she's more conscious than ever about food and wants to
eat things that are good for her and small portions. She'll
never give up exercising, saying it has truly changed her life.
Bultman still suffers from chronic pain from arthritis and
a lung surgery incurred from a car accident a few years ago,
but she says she has a new lease on life. She loves to dance,
walk, listen to her favorite band, "One Brick Shy," and
wear clothes she hasn't been able to in years. She's had to
have her wedding bands resized from a 7 1/2 to a 5 1/2.
Through two years of excruciating pain and emotional agony,
Bultman has found herself not only through her weight loss,
but salvation. While losing weight was a huge accomplishment,
one she is most proud of is her baptism certificate, signifying
that she is a Christian. "I don't know what I'd do without
my church, Holton Christian, and Pastor Bob McCreary," she
noted. "The people are so supportive there and I find
peace," she noted.
Husband Tim has been her rock for years and was by her side
throughout her weight loss. "He was there when I gained
and stuck by me when I lost it all," laughed Bultman.
She noted that she has had many friends and people who have
been "there for her." My best friend, Becky Johnson
came and stayed with me after being hospitalized, my sister,
Karen Smith, was always there when I needed her and the people
at Curves were friends along with doing their jobs. She thanked
her children and grandchildren for their support and actually
noted the grandchildren were inspiration in the beginning to
even begin to lose the weight. "I wanted to play with
them and be there for them," she noted.
Bultman thanked another great friend, Teresa Isaacs, her Avon
representative Janie Grigsby, who has helped her with make-up
and lotions, her church for their support and her doctor for
his expertise. "I want to thank God for giving me another
lease on life. By rights, I shouldn't even be alive, but I
guess He had a plan for me," she concluded.
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