Osgood woman shares story of weight struggle
Wanda
English Burnett - Editor
The Second Annual American Cancer Society Great American Weigh
In will see hundreds of Americans taking to the scales on Wednesday,
March 3.
Char Bultman of Osgood, has already weighed
in and March 3, will mark the three-month anniversary of the
day she took the plunge and had gastric bypass surgery.
"The truth is if I had never dieted
the first time, I'd only be about 30 pounds overweight right
now," Bultman shares her story of years of struggles with
a number of diet programs in hopes of helping "just one
person."
HOW IT STARTED
On a diet roller coaster for twenty-five
years, Bultman said she wasn't always overweight. "I weighed
105 pounds when I got married." Obesity does run in her
family and she remembered her grandfather who weighed 500 pounds
when he died.
"I've tried every diet plan and each
time I lost weight, I gained it back plus more besides," Bultman
said.
Bultman also says the expense of "eating healthy" was a deterrent along
with the fact she cooked the way she was taught, mostly frying foods.
MAKING THE DECISION
Noting that she is only about 5'1" in
height, Bultman said she was having trouble just walking from
her house to her daughter's house, which is just next door.
Bultman, whose weight spiraled out of control
last year, made the decision to take the biggest step of her
life and have surgery on December 3. "I wasn't going to
share my all time high weight, but I think I will, it's not
a secret," she said, "I weighed in on December 3,
at 363 pounds." She said she agonized for about five years
about getting the gastric bypass. "I read up on the surgery
and I knew the risks."
Saying the surgery was intense and not a
decision to be made lightly, Bultman said she's sick of hearing
people say having gastric bypass is the easy way out. "Let
me tell you, there's nothing easy about it."
A lot of reasons went into the final decision
for Bultman to have the gastric bypass, which is an operation
that creates a small gastric (stomach) pouch, which is about
the size of a
small egg. "My stomach is no
bigger than an egg," she noted, adding that it doesn't hold much.
The surgery was performed at Christ Hospital
in Cincinnati, by Dr. Wesley Alexander, a renowned kidney transplant
doctor. "He's the best in his field," she said.
Bultman had to have massive amounts of blood
during the surgery and even after she was sent home she
was rushed back to the hospital
for complications. Each day was a miracle as she struggled to live.
She has other medical problems which compounded the difficulties she
endured with the latest surgery.
"Why put yourself through such a horrific
surgery?" Bultman was asked. Her reply was simple, "I
wanted my life back."
Bultman said she doesn't think she would be
alive for her fiftieth birthday, which will be in three years,
if she didn't lose weight. The fact that she is very family
oriented is evident as she talks and by the display of family
photos that adorn her home. "I wanted to play with my
grandchildren," she said. The Bultmans - Tim and Char
- have ten grandchildren and four step grandchildren. They
have two sons, Jeremy and Mike, and
a daughter Angie Meyer.
"I remember being in a terrible car
accident about three years ago and when the emergency people
came, I was embarrassed because of my size. I kept apologizing
to them," she shared, adding that volunteers from the
Milan Rescue Squad are the greatest. "They treated me
with so much respect."
After a lung surgery that was necessary following
the accident, Bultman is disabled.
LOOKING TO THE FUTURE
"I dream of running, riding my bike,
and I want to jump," she said with a twinkle in her eye.
Bultman said she wants to enjoy life with her family. "And
if sharing my story will help just one person - it's worth
it."
Bultman's life changing operation doesn't
stop with the surgery itself. Now, she changes everything she
does. She exercises, measures
food, drinks plenty of water, and actively thinks about what is healthy
for her...and it's paying off. At her regular doctor's appointment on
February 25, she had lost a whopping total of 72 pounds since December 3!
"I have to be realistic about my ultimate
goal and I want to weigh 140 pounds," she noted. "You
know what I look forward to?" she asked, and then answered
the question, "Wearing jeans. I want to wear jeans again," she
laughed.
LIFE GOES ON
While Bultman looks forward to the day she
can run, jump, and ride her bicycle, she is thankful for everyday
she's been given a new lease on life.
"I'm putting a bicycle in layaway this
weekend," she beams, and says she will be joining Curves
for Women as soon as she can.
"I'm thankful for my husband Tim, he's
my anchor," she said of her husband of 31 years. A man
of few words, Tim said he is proud of his wife and supports
her one hundred percent. "She's doing a good job," he
complimented her.
(Editor's note: Char Bultman has agreed
to let the newspaper chronicle her progress in six month
increments.)
WANDA ENGLISH BURNETT PHOTO
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Char Bultman of Osgood enjoys
sitting in her easy chair reading, crocheting, and
doing needlepoint. She also looks forward to the
day she can run, ride her bike and play with her
grandchildren.
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